The anger

When the Supra-conscious sends to the conscious signals of psychic suffering specific to the anger (which are similar with those specific to the irritation, sadness, revolt, hate, envy, etc.) we can be sure that exactly in that moment, a wrong judgment manifests in our psyche.

Knowing this we can immediately start to identify the mistake of judgment usually characterized by a false expectation, and thus to correct it.

Example 1: Viorel got angry because one of his acquaintance was late for a meeting although she/he had promised that he/she wouldn’t be late.
Let’s follow the stages of the Psychical Harmonization for this case:

1. The state felt was that of irritation, anger and sadness, a specific state of psychical suffering which was generated by a wrong judgment.

2. The event is that previously described: the acquaintance was late for 20 minutes at the meeting

3. In those moments, Viorel has some wrong judgments in his psyche like:
a) “I don’t understand why he promises if he can’t keep it.”
b) “He has been late again: he always does the same.” etc.

4. The mistake of judgment can be quickly identified if we are able to identify the deeper judgments implied by the one mentioned above.

a) “He should always keep his promises.”

The specific false expectation consists in the fact that we expect all the people to keep their promises, which is impossible. From different reasons they can’t always keep their promises.
Understanding this we also understand that in this case, in which the acquaintance is late, is one in which a promise couldn’t be kept; we’ll see later why.

b) “He is always late but he should never be late.”

The false expectation is obvious: from different reasons, each of us is sometimes late at different meetings.
So, we can see that the wrong judgments identified at 4. are characterized by evident false expectations (we expect impossible things to happen) and we eliminate them from the psyche. Once eliminated and replaced with some correct judgments (“People are sometimes late and other times not, from reasons dependable or undependable of them.”) we’ll see that the state of anger will disappear, too.

Example 2: Claudiu works on a computer but its programmes block up from time to time.
1. The state is that of agitation, irritation and anxiety
2. The event is that previously described
3. The judgments identified in that moment are:
“Damn it! The computer has blocked again.”
“This computer is really stupid; I do all my best and it continues to block up.”

4. The profound wrong judgments are:
“This computer should never block up!”

But we know that, because of different reasons regarding especially the bad utilization of the computer, it sometimes blocks up.

“I should always do well what I do; I should never be wrong!”
The false expectation is obvious: the man is submitted to mistakes from time to time; but being aware of this truth, it’s important to learn something from these mistakes, to be more careful and not to make them again.